Funeral Etiquette
~Expressing Sympathy Properly~
Funeral etiquette is absolutely essential when you are called
upon
to express your sympathy to family and friends of someone who has
passed away. It is a time of loss and mourning, so you need to be
tender to the feelings around you.
There
is a purpose for funerals. When a close member of my family suddenly
passed away life became surreal. It was as if we stopped but the world
around us kept going. Coming to grips with what had just happened
became an almost impossible task.
As the family pulled together,
we found strength in our hearts. Planning the funeral services, picking
out the casket and finding a burial plot gave us a sense of purpose. It
helped us grieve.
In the days that followed, there were so
many kind, loving and generous people who wanted to help, sympathize
and be there for us. During the services, a tribute was paid to our
family member that we still hold on to. It was a quiet and reverent
time.
It is not an easy thing to pass through, however it is
bearable when there are family and friends there to help ease the
burdens.
Mourning with
someone can give them hope in a dark time. It is
our hope to help you give that hope to someone during a time such as
this.
Etiquette
for funerals is simple. It is a time to share
good things about their loved one, share in their grief and share in
their needs. Sometimes all a person needs is someone they can cry with.
Condolences
etiquette will help you know what to say when it seems as
though there are no words.
When a soldier or a sailor has fallen, they are honored with a military
funeral.
Military funeral etiquette will show
your reverence for the service they have given their family and country.
In most funerals, flowers represent support and sympathy for
the family and friends.
Funeral flower etiquette will help
you show this
in a beautiful way.
There will be so many people who will support you during a time of loss
with their presence, gifts and donations.
Funeral
thank you etiquette will help you express your gratitude to
them for all that they have done.
Funeral manners can be different with each
culture. Death is viewed differently around the globe. Being aware of
and sensitive to differing beliefs will guide you in using sympathy
etiquette properly.
Jewish funeral etiquette shows the richness of their culture.
During
a time of loss and sometimes, devastation for a family, funeral
etiquette can help you know what to do for a family in need of love and
support.